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Christmas Names

December 7, 2010

Merry … whatever it is you celebrate!  :)

Around here, we’re getting ready for Christmas.  This being Leo’s first Christmas, it’s pretty exciting.

In honor of the holiday spirit, here is a list of names having to do with Christmas.  Some of them are pretty obvious, but some of them may be reaching a bit.  Which may be exactly what you want, so as not to club people over the head with “my-baby-is-named-a-Christmas-name.”

I would tend to give people a lot of leeway with this, mostly because I love Christmas time (and Christmas names).

Some of these might also be good choices if your holiday celebrations include a new puppy/kitten/rabbit/goldfish/iguana/etc.

Enjoy!

Girl Names
Merry
Noelle
Holly
Ivy
Natalie
Christina
Nicole
Eira
Winter
Decima
Dara
Mary
Joy
Carol
Emmanuelle
Angel
Gloria

Boy Names
Noel
Nicholas
Joseph
Decimus
Theodore
Luke
Matthew
Neo (means “gift”, but beware the Matrix)
Gabriel
Christopher
Christian

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Leo Nathaniel and The Phenomenon

November 26, 2010

So, after many databases, spreadsheets, and rating systems (yes, we are nerds), we decided to go with a name that wasn’t even in our original Top 10. We saw the ultrasound photos, and we said, “He’s Leo Nathaniel”. Ultimately, that was easy.

I wrote about the name Leo awhile back, never imagining that someday I’d have one of my very own. The name is quite a bit shorter than the names I generally like, but, as I said, he pretty much just WAS a Leo. There was no other option.

And so far, the name has been serving us very well. The lone exception is my mother-in-law, who has been known to call our sweet little baby “Lee-Lee” (eew).

But we have discovered something that is common to parents everywhere, and something that I didn’t expect would ever happen to us: suddenly, we are hearing the name everywhere. We didn’t pick the name because it was unusual, thank goodness. But, come on! On one particular message board I am on, there are three Leos under six months old. My dad told me that he met another person with my same first name, and she recently had a baby who would have been named Leo if she had possessed the appropriate parts.

This is something that happens to almost everyone, but it wasn’t supposed to happen to us!

Bottom line: when naming your progeny, be sure to pick a name that you would love even if it suddenly jumped to the top of the charts. Because it probably will.

(This post was written entirely on my dad’s iPad, while sitting in my grandparents’ living room. I have no idea how to scroll back up and edit. I probably should have waited and written this post on a “real” computer, but I decided to seize the nap time.)

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I am so sorry.

November 21, 2010

It has been far, far too long since I have updated this blog. Tons of comments have been left hanging in cyberspace for the digital equivalent of eons. But I have a very cute little excuse:

I will get back on the horse with a new article soon, I hope. For now, though — it’s 9:00 p.m., and those big blue eyes are finally closed. Hopefully for at least a couple of hours. Wish me luck! :)

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Honoring People with Names

December 8, 2009

When I was a kid, I was tickled pink that I had the same middle name as my mom.  My first name — well, that seemed to be completely a matter of chance.  My mother was knocked out with the drugs, and my dad was pressed by the army doctors to fill in the birth certificate without her.  They had discussed the name “Melanie” at some point while I had been baking, and so Melanie I became.  But my middle name!  To me, it seemed premeditated.  Classic.  A little piece of history, passed down to me for my very own.

And what is this stunning middle name, you may ask?  Brace yourself.  My middle name is … Ann.

I look at it now and wonder how I could ever have been so enamored with it.  I mean, there’s not even an “-e” to dress it up a bit!

But this middle name was also my mother’s, and I was the kind of child who liked being connected with the past in any way.

Flash forward a few years, and my parents are faced with the task of naming my brother.  They knew that they wanted to name him after our maternal grandfather, but there was a problem.  You see, our dad shared a name with his dad.  And my new baby brother would likely be the only boy with our last name.  He was supposed to be the one to “carry it on,” you see.

Much drama ensued.  The whole situation culminated in my poor brother being given TWO middle names, to try to cover everybody who needed to be “honored.”

That whole episode kind of left a sour taste in my mouth when I think about “honoring” people with names.  I see nothing wrong with naming a child after an author, artist, or historical figure you admire.  I can even condone the practice of using random names of long-gone relatives in your family tree.  But things start getting a bit hairy when you decide to name the kid after Aunt Lillian (probably just because you like the sound of her name, not because she rescued your dog from being hit by a car, or something), and then Aunt Mildred starts getting her panties in a bunch (maybe because she really DID rescue your dog and thinks she deserves a namesake).

You can see where “honoring” someone who is still alive can lead to hurt feelings and family drama.

Not to mention, there is a certain weight of expectation that is put upon a child when they become the one to carry the family name.  I don’t think it’s a coincidence that there is a disproportionally high number of “Juniors” who are behind bars — don’t quote me on this; I read it somewhere and can’t remember the source.  Also, I have nothing against Juniors, personally:  my husband is one, and he seems to have turned out pretty good.

And so we will not be naming our new baby (coming in July, yay!) after anybody on either side of our family.  There will not be a George Middlename Lastname III.  We declare our independence from George III (sorry)!

(note:  the guy with the pipe may or may not be my great-grandfather, John Marshall Lastname.)

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Name Spotlight: Theodore

December 2, 2009

Oh, this is one of my very favorite boy names!  *insert girlish “squee” here*

I’m going to have to disagree with NameBerry on this one, though:  I don’t think that this name was “everywhere” in the late 1800s/early 1900s.  The highest it ever got was #30 (in 1904), when there were only 835 little Theodores born that year.  For comparison’s sake, there were 8,108 Johns reported that year.  (Now, this is all according to the Social Security website, and there may very probably be some aspect of these numbers that I’m not grasping.  But this is what it looks like to me.)

So, why exactly do I like Theodore so much, you may ask?  Several reasons.  It’s gently old-fashioned, but not in a stodgy way (although this might be a matter of opinion.  Several of the comments on Behind the Name are less than favorable in this area).  It has a very appealing meaning (“gift of God”).

And the biggest reason of all for my Theodore-love is … the nicknames.  Oh, the nicknames!  How I love them!

Teddy.  An adorable nickname for a little boy.  I know a second-grader who goes by this nickname.  When I met him in kindergarten, he was roly-poly and good-natured, with chocolate brown hair and big brown eyes.  I just about swooned on the spot when I heard his name.  But fortunately for him, as he gets older he can choose to go by …

Theo.  This is one of the coolest names I can think of.  Even cooler than Leo, and without sounding stuck-up.  My husband says that this nickname makes him think of the Cosby Show, but I don’t think kids nowadays have ever even heard of the Huxtables.  I picture an artistic teenager when I hear the nickname Theo.

Ted.  I’m iffy on this one; of all of the Theodore nicknames, this one sounds the stodgiest in my opinion.  Ted Bundy — blech.  Though there are also many positive associations with Ted, this nickname sounds the most like a Baby Boomer.  Stick with the other nicknames, and you’ll be fine.

One possible negative association from the younger set is that dratted Alvin and the Chipmunks movie.  But they never use the nicknames for Theodore, to the best of my knowledge, so as long as your son avoids the full form during those few cartoon-crazy years, he should be okay.

Better than okay, because he will have a very versatile and classy name.

from AskOxford
From the French form of the Greek name Theod{o_}ros, derived from theos ‘god’ + d{o_}ron ‘gift’. The name was popular among early Christians and was borne by several saints.

from Behind the Name
From the Greek name Θεοδωρος (Theodoros), which meant “gift of god” from Greek θεος (theos) “god” and δωρον (doron) “gift”. This was the name of several saints, including Theodore of Amasea, a 4th-century Greek soldier; Theodore of Tarsus, a 7th-century archbishop of Canterbury; and Theodore the Studite, a 9th-century Byzantine monk. It was also borne by two popes.  This was a common name in classical Greece, and, due to both the saints who carried it and the favourable meaning, it came into general use in the Christian world, being especially popular among Eastern Christians. It was however rare in Britain before the 19th century. Famous bearers include three tsars of Russia (in the Russian form Fyodor), American president Theodore Roosevelt (1858-1919) and American children’s book creator Theodore Seuss Geisel (1904-1991), better known as Dr. Seuss.

from NameBerry
When Theodore Roosevelt took office in 1901, his name was in the Top 40, with Teds and Teddys everywhere. After some damaging stereotypes — the nerdy Chipmunk, Beaver Cleaver’s real name — it went into a decline, from which it is yet to recover.

from Baby Name Wizard
Style:  Ladies and Gentlemen
Sisters and Brothers:  Beatrice, Eleanor, Alma, Antonia, Josephine, Julius, Frederick, Everett, August, Conrad
A nifty name, bristling with gentlemanly vigor and surprisingly undiscovered in the recent turn-of-the-century revival.  Two fine nickname options complete the package:  down-to-earth Ted and artistic Theo.

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One-Syllable Names for Girls

November 17, 2009

It’s all about the rhythm.  Maybe it’s because I’m a music teacher, but I think the rhythm a name makes when it’s combined with a middle and last name is one of the most important things to consider.

Rather than re-invent the wheel, I’m going to refer you to an excellent article written by the Name Nerds lady (I think her name is Norah).  Summary:  variety in flow, vowel sounds, and rhythm can make a name interesting.

For example, if you happen to have a one-syllable last name, I would recommend against using any of the names on the list below.  It would be very likely to come out sounding like Ann Veal from “Arrested Development,” the girl who was so boring that nobody could ever remember her name (“Her?”).

But, on the other hand, if you have a long and complicated last name, it could greatly simplify life for your child if you choose a shorter first name.

As I mentioned in my post on one-syllable boy names, I am forever barred from considering any of these names for any future children, alas.  Our soft one-syllable surname really needs something long and clunky to balance it out (fortunately, I love long and clunky names).

But any of these would work great for a middle name.  Choose something interesting, though!  As someone with a filler middle name myself, I can heartily say with the character from “Where the Heart Is,” that you should “give that baby a name that means something.”

Side note:  be careful with the initials.  A couple of days ago, out of the blue, I had a fourth grader complain to me about her initials (G.A.S.).  Poor kid.  Please think about these things before you decide on a middle name.  I’m not sure how that one got past her parents, but it did.  Don’t let this happen to you.

Girls
Anne
Belle
Bess
Beth
Bette
Blair
Blanche
Britt
Brooke
Brynn
Claire
Dawn
Elle
Eve
Faith
Fay
Fern
Fleur
Gail
Grace
Greer
Gwen
Hope
Jade
Jan
Jane
Jean
Jill
Jo
Joan
Joy
Joyce
June
Kai
Kate
Kim
Lark
Lee
Lise
Lou
Lynn
Madge
Maeve
Maude
May
Merle
Nell
Niamh
Paige
Pearl
Quinn
Ray
Rose
Ruth
Sage
Shea
Star
Tess
Wren
Yael

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One-Syllable Names for Boys

November 13, 2009

short

There’s something so direct and straightforward about one-syllable names.  They are so in-your-face that they appeal to a lot of people.

Especially one-syllable names for boys.  Many (not all) of the boy names on the list below can be seen as “tough,” which can be very attractive.  If you have a long and rolling last name, hey, you’ve hit the jackpot!  These names can add the necessary balance to The Force.

I would not necessarily use all of these names myself, not the least because we have a one-syllable surname.  If we were to use these, it would probably come out sounding too curt, terse, and succinct.  Like a bark.

But there are many names on this list that I think are great, and it is with a pang of regret that I relinquish them.

In the interest of providing a more comprehensive list, I have included a few names that are … um … of questionable lineage.  Meaning that they started out as surnames or nicknames for a longer form.  But I tried to restrict most of the names on the list to names that I would not cringe at if I saw them on students.

This might be a good reference for middle name ideas.

One-Syllable Boys
Beau
Blaise
Brad
Bram
Bran
Brent
Brett
Brock
Bruce
Bryn
Cade
Cale
Carl
Chad
Charles
Cian
Clark
Claude
Clay
Clint
Clive
Clyde
Cole
Colm
Craig
Dale
Dean
Duane
Earl
Finn
Frank
Fritz
George
Glenn
Graham
Grant
Guy
Hans
Heath
Hugh
Jack
James
Joel
John
Jude
Jules
Kai
Keith
Kim
Kirk
Kurt
Kyle
Lance
Lars
Lee
Leif
Lir
Luke
Mark
Max
Merle
Miles
Neil
Noel
Paul
Pierce
Quinn
Ralph
Rand
Ray
Reid
Rex
Rhys
Rolf
Ross
Roy
Royce
Saul
Scott
Sean
Seth
Shea
Sven
Todd
Trey
Vaughn
Wade
Wayne
Wynn
Zane

 

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